Many women who are power players in the corporate world find their bedroom activities lack-luster. Here’s a little secret that I’d like to share to share: don’t be in control when it comes to sex. The problem with women who are driven at work is that they take it home and continue on with the woman-on-top position in the bedroom. Giving your partner full control in the arena of sex can help you explore a side of your sexuality that you may never have thought possible.
If it seems uncomfortable, you can take it nice and slow. Urge your partner to lead. Tell him or her that you want to be spanked or told what to do. Pace it such that you become the submissive half of the partnership. Once you’re used to not being so in control, you’ll soon discover how refreshing it is. Sex then becomes more than just a physical act but more of a release from all the stress at work as well.
You can even take it to the extreme once in a while and experiment with bondage. Let your partner tie you up or use slave cuffs. Give him or her complete dominance and power over you.
It’s all about attitude and mental state. Remember, sex should not be work – literally and figuratively. If you want to still feel that presence of mind that you’re the boss, you can always use your office gear to keep things exciting and transition from the boardroom to the bedroom easier. For instance, use your pencil cut skirt but hike it up a bit. Tie your hair into a bun as you enter the bedroom but let him loosen it for you. If you use neckties, use it creatively in the bedroom.
So two things to help you bridge that gap: lose control and be creative.