Have you ever had sex with your partner when you’re angry? Some women may say this is unthinkable as they won’t be in the mood in the first place. Try it just once and you’ll be an instant convert . The husband and I had a big fight just last night. I was screaming at him in public for being late yet again for an important engagement we had earlier. He just sat there quietly while driving.
Later that night, when we got home, I was still giving him the silent treatment. Up until the time we were already in bed, there was still no words exchanged between us. He suddenly grabs me by the hips and start to kiss me. As I was still fuming mad, I tried to fight him off. Then, I was surprised to find myself giving in. More than that, I was letting off steam with sex! We were both very aggressive with our moves and one thing led to another. It ended up being a wild romp like I’ve never experienced. Although it began with so much emotion of anger, much of it dissipated throughout the act.
Sex is good anger therapy. Here’s another tip, try using sex toys as part of your anger management. While dildos and vibrators may not seem like the best companion at this point, you always have your options in bondage equipment. Harnesses, chains, cuffs and gimp balls are great things to play with when you’re angry. But my personal preference is the vibrating whip.
Angry sex is a great way to start experimenting with BDSM, do be careful not to hurt each other too much in the process. The sheer emotion combined with pleasure is enough to drive you to orgasm several times during sex. Getting to whip him back into shape is just a plus.