Some women ask why they need to spend on a mechanical device like a vibrator or similar sex toys for women when they can really pleasure themselves with just their fingers. It’s difficult to explain it to women who have never had the experience of using a vibrator. It’s simply more intense and direct.
While your fingers can provide the warmth of human touch and can respond directly to what stimulates and pleasures you, a vibrator can offer you power and depth. Your fingers don’t nearly get as deep as a vibrator can, especially the huge ones classified as monster dildos. There are also specialized vibrators and dildos that can find and stimulate your g-spot, this is very difficult to do if you’re doing a solo act.
Vibrators also don’t get tired like your fingers, allowing you to keep going at it until you’re really ready to orgasm. Your fingers can only offer limited movement and stimulation to your clitoris, while a vibrator has different pulse settings and even strength settings.
Some women say that using a vibrator means they orgasm faster. If you’re up for a quickie, then this is a good tool to use. However, if you want it nice and slow, fingers would work better, at least until you have better control of how you use a vibrator. It takes time to learn how to stretch out your sessions so you can enjoy the experience more.
For women who are uncomfortable to make the switch an easy way to do it is to use a vibrator to supplement your finger-driven masturbation. It will feel different, maybe even weird at first, but you’ll get used to it and really get to enjoy it. A good way to start is to use your fingers to massage the clitoris and when you’re about ready to explode, get the vibrator going in your vagina. It’ll blow your mind.