Curious about the g-spot? You should be, there’s been talk about that erotic zone for years. It is named after the German doctor Ernst Gräfenberg who first talked about its existence in the 1950’s. He describes it as “an erotic zone on the anterior wall of the vagina” that “swells out greatly at the end of orgasm”.
All women have a g-spot although it may seem quite elusive for some. As you may have read or experienced for yourself, the g-spot is not that easy to find. The couple need to prepare for it and as a woman, you need to be aroused before it becomes accessible to your partner. A bit of foreplay would be a good way to start.
When you’re ready, lay on your back and inhale as your partner inserts two fingers in. Your partner needs to do a come-hither motion once inside. The g-spot should feel different, more bumpy and spongey than the rest of the vaginal wall. It should feel like a ridged area on the upper wall of the vagina and is only about an inch in diameter. The little crooked angle of the finger should stimulate it. Depending on the person, it can be very close to the entrance or as far as an inch and a half back.
Once your partner feels your g-spot, you need to let him or her know how to move. The best position is to have your partner’s other hand holding on to your pubic bone as the pressure intensifies the experience. Communication is the key. Be specific about how you like to be handled – be specific about stimulation speed, pressure and even down to the direction of the movement.
Here’s a good tip: left to right movement like that of windshield wipers is a good way to begin simulating the g-spot. The more it gets stimulated, the more the g-spot becomes evident as it engorges. Once orgasm is reached, the g-spot releases the female ejaculation so you maybe a bit surprised at the new feeling. Finding and stimulating the g-spot is a pleasurable learning experience for both you and your partner.