There is nothing worse than scheduling sex and making it part of the “routine”. This will just kill the romance and bore you eventually, triggering the need to try something or even someone else. In a relationship, sex must be something spur of the moment. It should happen out of the natural need to pleasure yourself and to be with someone you love.
Enjoy spontaneity by surprise your partner with different costumes and adding variety to the mix with sex toys. A whip, leather attire and some bondage equipment are great for playing the dominatrix. Introducing a vibrator to your partner can get things heated up and lessen your foreplay time so you can get right into the action. Butt plugs and anal beads are good for your anal play 101 lessons. Let sex toys help you teach each other new tricks in the bedroom.
You can even go beyond the four corners of your house with discrete sex toys such as vibrating panties or bullet vibrators that you can take along with you on your dates. Remote vibrators can be given to your partner so he or she can find ways to surprise you throughout the night.
Spontaneous sex can easily be achieved by any couple with a dash of creativity and some ever-dependable sex toys. If you are in that point of your relationship that things in the bedroom are starting to get stale, open up to your partner about it. Discuss the matter and keep an open mind as to how you can resolve the problem. You might be pleasantly surprised that your partner is more into a change of scenery and sex routine than you are.