Just to be clear, sex as referred to here does not necessarily refer to out and out fucking. There are may types of sexual activities, and engaging in one or more on a first date is not a bad choice, depending on several things.
First, the first date means a man and a woman – it also works for a man and a man, or a woman and a woman, by the way – agree to go out because they are attracted to each other. Something about that other person has piqued the curiosity of one, and he/she has found that the feeling is mutual.
So what to do on that first date, nerves and all? Depends on the season. If it’s summer and the two live near a beach or a resort with a huge swimming pool and few guests, then some fun in the sun and the nice body of water is perfect.
On a pleasant spring day, a picnic in the park seems like a spectacular idea, doesn’t it? And for a hot summer night, dinner and a movie sound divine.
But as the night (or day) moves on, and the two have more or less decided that the attraction between them feels even more electrifying, then some form of physical contact is called for.
Go back to your high school years, ladies and gents. This was when any kind of contact that resulted in his cock getting hard or her pussy getting wet was considered as sex. So be it now.
First base sex is a torrid kiss. As in French, with tongues fencing against each other, and saliva is exchanged freely.
Second base sex is when the guy gets to touch her breasts, and she gets to feel his hard on with her hands, and masturbates it even.
Third base is when he fingers her pussy, and puts his cock in her mouth. Men sometimes refer to this act as “heaven.”
The homerun is when the man and the woman fuck.
So there. That’s the kind of sex that may happen on a first date, and it is up to the woman to reward the man with some sexual action if she has had a grand time on their first date.
Statistics say that Australian women are the most likely to agree to full fourth base sex on a first date. Jolly good for them Aussie mates, yes? But in the North Americas are not as generous with our sexual favors, it seems. So we expect our men to give us a good reason why he gets to taste our tongues on that first time out.
If the attraction is exceptionally strong between the two, a French kiss before calling it a night is a promise that the next date will be even better. So the man had better ante up and find an even better place for date number two. A French restaurant with a snobbish maitre d is perfectly acceptable.
A long time ago, our mothers or grandmothers were always expected to play it coy on their first dates with our dads and granddads. Not anymore, ladies. Today, if we like a guy, we can show how we feel immediately. And sex on a first date is part of dating life in this 21st century.